We who are strong ought to put up with the failings of the weak, and not to please ourselves. Each of us must please our neighbor for the good purpose of building up the neighbor. For Christ did not please himself; but, as it is written, “The insults of those who insult you have fallen on me.” For whatever was written in former days was written for our instruction, so that by steadfastness and by the encouragement of the scriptures we might have hope. May the God of steadfastness and encouragement grant you to live in harmony with one another, in accordance with Christ Jesus, so that together you may with one voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. (Romans 15:1-6, NRSV)
It is not about us.
It is not about us getting our way.
We need to put up with the failings of the weak, not to make ourselves happy, but to lift them up.
Christ died for all and lifted the weak. He did not look out for himself but for the other.
We need to do the same.